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May 8th, 2015 by heartmatterz

I am 25 years old and a final-year undergraduate.I met this man through his sister, whi is my friend. He is 27 years old and works in an oil company in delta state. We became friends and after a while, I had a vision that he is my life partner. When i told him about this, he ws so happy but replied that though he also wanted me, He would not give me an answer yet until he had prayed about it too Later, i found out that he took me as a cheap girl, who was throwing herself at him! I had to send him message that i was no longer interested and he replied that he was happy at my decision and waited for it all this while.  Really,I saw this vision,not that i lied, What do i do?
A.D,
LAGOS
Since you had a vision that he was yours may be you should have exercise patience and not sent the text message. I don’t think it was wise telling him about the vision. That was why he ended up seeing you as cheap. You should have also prayed for God to show him the same vision inorder to avoid any confusion. Now that he has said no, I suggest you pray about it again.

 

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May 8th, 2015 by heartmatterz

I met this girl in your december 2013,edition.initially,distance was our challenge but we resolved that on january 13, 2014, when she visited me for the first time. We ended up in bed. I was stunned the next day when another suitor slept with her. prior to our meeting,she had shared her dirty past with me on the three abortions she had. She said she was sleeping with friends boyfriend and her  room-mates in school. She slepts with men even those she come across on the internet. She can have sex anywhere including her parents house and shop. The worst was when she got a job in lagos and had to put at  her uncles place. Vexed by her unrepentant character,I visited her there,slept with her forcefully and called it quits.Did i go too far?
O.B,
Ondo.
yes you did go to far. That she is unrepentant of her ways is not sufficient for you to rape her. Obviously,you never loved her but wanted her body and not ready to help her. Meeting anyone(male or female) on this platform is not to have cheap sex or extort money from them. It is for two consenting adults to meet band make something worthwhile of their relationship with eachother. She has a problem which if you  are willing, could be resolved by your love. You need to apologise to her.

 

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