May 8th, 2015 by heartmatterz

I am 30 years old and married with two children. But my wife has never been happy since the first day of marriage. I asked her what was wrong but she would not answer,rahter she would sy she knows what shes doing. I have tried all i could to please her – cook if she is not back from her shop and boost the business with over 500,000 – yet she is not happy with me. She is expecting aour third child, yet she ios not happy. What do i do?
M.L
ABUJA
Then open up to her parents  if they can probe her and tell you what is happening. On the other hand, Some she may be suffering from  psychological trauma due to certain incidents. You have done all to please her but you need to confide in her parents.

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May 8th, 2015 by heartmatterz

I met this girl in your december 2013,edition.initially,distance was our challenge but we resolved that on january 13, 2014, when she visited me for the first time. We ended up in bed. I was stunned the next day when another suitor slept with her. prior to our meeting,she had shared her dirty past with me on the three abortions she had. She said she was sleeping with friends boyfriend and her  room-mates in school. She slepts with men even those she come across on the internet. She can have sex anywhere including her parents house and shop. The worst was when she got a job in lagos and had to put at  her uncles place. Vexed by her unrepentant character,I visited her there,slept with her forcefully and called it quits.Did i go too far?
O.B,
Ondo.
yes you did go to far. That she is unrepentant of her ways is not sufficient for you to rape her. Obviously,you never loved her but wanted her body and not ready to help her. Meeting anyone(male or female) on this platform is not to have cheap sex or extort money from them. It is for two consenting adults to meet band make something worthwhile of their relationship with eachother. She has a problem which if you  are willing, could be resolved by your love. You need to apologise to her.

 

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